Matchmaker reveals the one thing women should never do if they want a man to like them: ‘If you do this they’ll never chase you’
- Dating expert Louanne Ward shares what not to do to make a guy chase you
- Perth matchmaker says you shouldn’t play ‘tough’ too early
- You may think you’re making him keener, but the opposite is actually true
- Instead, you need to be polite, respond to messages, and let her be naturally curious.
- She shared why women don’t want to date men who always play the ‘victim’.
A leading dating expert and matchmaker reveals the one thing you need to stop doing if you want someone to chase you.
Perth’s Luanne Ward said single women are guilty of playing “hard to get” even before a man is interested.
And while they may think they’re making her even more curious, in fact the opposite is true.
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A leading dating expert and matchmaker reveals what you need to stop doing if you want a man to chase you (Louanne Ward pic)
Louanne Ward (pictured), from Perth, said single women are guilty of playing ‘hard to get’ before a man takes an interest
‘Ladies, here’s a tip on how to chase a man,’ Louanne said in an Instagram video.
‘A man won’t chase you until you give him a chance to chase you. Playing hard to get before she’s interested in you won’t work.’
She said that if you’ve been out on a date or two and you think it’s time for him to start pursuing, you’re wrong – and he won’t do it.
‘At this stage, he hasn’t made up his mind whether he’s interested in you or not,’ she said.
‘Don’t play games. Give him a chance to decide if he wants to follow you.’
After a date or two, Luann said you should “be polite, return her calls and answer her messages”.
‘Give him a chance to decide if he wants to pursue you,’ she said.
‘He won’t do that by playing your game.’
Hundreds of people who viewed the clip said they agreed “100 per cent” with Louanne.
‘Great advice Louanne,’ one person commented.
Another added: ‘Don’t they decide at first sight whether they are interested in us or not? Is it something that develops over time? He did not know’.
After a date or two, Luann said you should “be polite, answer her calls and respond to her messages,” as well as give her the opportunity to decide whether she wants to pursue you.
Previously, dating expert (pictured) shared why women don’t want to date men who always play the ‘victim’.
Earlier, the dating expert shared why women don’t want to date men who always play the ‘victim’.
“There’s a big difference between being vulnerable, sharing something from your heart, and playing the victim,” the matchmaker said in an Instagram video.
‘Playing the victim’ is a term used when someone portrays themselves as innocent and tough in a situation rather than taking responsibility.
‘It repels every woman on a subconscious level. Your woman needs a protector… a provider… a man. By playing the victim you are communicating that you are not strong enough for a man who needs him,’ she said.
When dating and getting to know someone, Luann said a woman will be immediately repelled by a man who doesn’t open up or share his feelings.
‘He doesn’t need to hear about all your past pain and sorrow over and over again. He needs to know who you are,’ she said.
‘Be open enough to be vulnerable and share your feelings. Playing the victim is not attractive.
Luen also suggested that men should not consider women as their “therapists” who want to “fix” them.
